Why Do You Think You Can Change Them?

If you're in a relationship for any length of time and your continually being hurt by your partner's behaviors, what makes you think that after all of this time you will get them to change. If you are unhappy and you choose to stay, then you need to accept what this person is doing, live with it and quit complaining about it...that is if that's all you believe you deserve, because chances are very slim that you will ever get what you want from them. On the other hand if you've done everything to try and make them understand how you feel and nothing changes, you need to face the reality that you will continue to be hurt and decide if it's worth it. Once you make the choice as to whether you should stay or go, you will be able to make the kind of healthy changes in your life that will put you well on the road to having what you want and what you deserve.