Is It A Direct Reflection On You?

When your relationship ends, many times your ego is so shattered that you start to think there is something wrong with you. You may have a tendency to distort reality by diminishing your worth and aggrandizing your ex's qualities. The reality is that it may have nothing to do with you and everything to do with your ex and sometimes things just don't work out the way we want them to. Realizing that you are not the one your ex chooses to be with is rejection at it's finest. It is probably the biggest hurdle to overcome when ending your relationship. Don't fall into the trap of beating yourself up and questioning everything you did. You have to let go of what didn't work out and leave the past behind. By focusing on what if and why, you are living in a place that simply doesn't exist anymore, only in your mind. It's your choice as to where you focus your thoughts. Begin to look forward instead of behind you and you will be well on your way to getting to a better place in your life.