It's all a Choice

Are you wondering when this pain is going to be gone? Let's look at the facts. There is no doubt that ending a relationship with someone you love is painful. It's also true that, no matter what, you have to go through the process. You can't avoid the stages of "letting go." But, what you do have control over is: how long you will allow it to go on. When you choose to continue to think about them, talk about them, go over and over what happened with them, etc.; you will hold on much longer. But...if you choose to take the right steps that will bring you closer to moving on faster, you will definitely shorten your grieving time. The bottom line, it's your choice.